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November arrives with crisp air, golden leaves, and an invitation to slow down and give thanks. But what if gratitude became more than a single day’s focus? What if, throughout this month, your family cultivated hearts that notice beauty, name blessings, and worship the Giver of all good gifts?

As homeschool families, we have a unique opportunity to weave thanksgiving into the rhythm of our days—not as one more task to check off, but as a posture of the heart that shapes how our children see the world. Scripture calls us to “give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18), and the classical tradition teaches us that repetition, observation, and reflection form habits that last a lifetime.

This November, as you practice these 27 gratitude activities for families, equip your children with a companion tool that makes daily thanksgiving tangible and memorable. Our free printable gratitude journal for children includes both writing and drawing prompts designed to guide young hearts through a month of reflection. Download it today and watch as your children fill its pages with wonder, worship, and thankfulness.

These individual and communal activities are quick and intentional. Some connect to classical education practices, such as memory work, narration, and observation. Others invite your family into service, creativity, and worship. All of them point your children toward a God who is faithful, generous, and worthy of all praise.

Begin with Reflection (Days 1-3)

1. Start a Gratitude Journal

This month, children can keep a daily gratitude journal with prompts that guide them to write or draw three things they’re thankful for. Use prompts like “I’m thankful for a person who…,” “I’m thankful for a place where…,” or “I’m thankful for something small today…” This becomes their companion throughout the month, a place where wonder is captured and worship begins.

Download our free printable gratitude journal for children to give your kids a beautiful tool for daily reflection. With both writing and drawing prompts, it’s designed to accommodate all ages and abilities.

Time: 10-15 minutes daily | Who: Individual

My Gratitude Journal

2. Create a Gratitude Jar for the Month

Decorate a jar together as a family using ribbons, paint, or fall-themed stickers. Each day, write what you’re thankful for on a slip of paper and add it to the jar. On Thanksgiving Day, empty the jar and read each slip aloud, celebrating all that God has provided. This visual reminder grows fuller each day, much like our awareness of God’s faithfulness.

Time: Initial setup 20 minutes, daily 3 minutes | Who: Family

3. Evening Gratitude Review

Before bed each night, each family member shares the best part of their day and thanks God for it. Make this a daily habit throughout November. Younger children might share one word or image; older children can explain in more detail. This simple practice closes each day with thanksgiving rather than worry, training hearts to seek the good.

Time: 5 minutes | Who: Family

Listen to The Truth About Thanksgiving on the Everyday Educator podcast

Scripture & Worship (Days 4-8)

4. Memorize a Psalm of Thanksgiving

Choose Psalm 100, 103, or 107 and work through it line by line as a family. Recite it together each morning, adding new verses as you memorize them. In classical education, memory work lays a foundation that serves students for years to come. When we memorize Scripture, we store up treasure that nourishes us in every season.

Start with just two lines. Echo them back and forth. Add a line each day. By Thanksgiving, you’ll have hidden God’s Word in your hearts.

Time: 5-10 minutes | Who: Family | Classical connection: Memory work, recitation

5. Create a Gratitude Prayer Chain

Cut paper strips in fall colors—orange, red, yellow, gold. Each day, write a prayer of thanks on a strip: “Thank You, Lord, for warm blankets,” “Thank You for laughter at the breakfast table,” “Thank You for the way the sun breaks through the clouds.” Loop each strip through the previous one, creating a growing chain of thanksgiving. Drape it across a doorway or hang it in your schoolroom. Pray through it at bedtime, remembering all the ways God has shown His kindness.

Time: 5 minutes | Who: Family

6. Sing Hymns of Gratitude

Learn “Great Is Thy Faithfulness,” “Count Your Blessings,” or “The Doxology.” Sing them as morning worship or during family devotions. Hymns carry theology in melody, teaching our children to think rightly about God while training their voices in beauty. The repetition of singing the same hymn daily throughout November makes it a companion to your gratitude practice, a song that rises naturally when hearts overflow.

Time: 10 minutes | Who: Family | Classical connection: Integration of the arts

7. Scripture Copywork for Thankfulness

Have children copy 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus”) or Colossians 3:17 (“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him”) in their best handwriting. Illustrate the verse with fall colors, symbols of harvest, or images that represent what they’re thankful for. They can add these pages to their gratitude journals or practice in the Prescripts Cursive Words: Scripture book.

Copywork is a grammar-stage practice that trains the hand, the eye, and the heart. When children write Scripture slowly and carefully, the words sink deeper.

Time: 15-20 minutes | Who: Individual | Classical connection: Copywork, grammar stage

8. Read a Parable of Gratitude

Read Luke 17:11-19 together—the account of ten lepers healed by Jesus. Only one returned to give thanks. Discuss: Why did only one come back? What does it mean to return and give thanks? How can we be like the one who remembered? Children can reflect on this parable in their journals, drawing the scene or writing their own prayer of thanks.

Time: 10 minutes | Who: Family

Read Reasons to be Thankful for Homeschooling this Thanksgiving

Observation & Wonder (Days 9-13)

9. Go on a Gratitude Walk

Take a nature walk and thank God aloud for specific things you observe: the veins in a red oak leaf, the way light filters through the trees, the crunch of frost beneath your feet, the industrious squirrel gathering acorns. The classical habit of attending begins with noticing. When we train our children to observe closely, we teach them that the world is full of gifts worth naming.

Return home and record your observations in journals or discuss them over hot cider.

Time: 20-30 minutes | Who: Family | Classical connection: Observation, attention

10. Draw What You’re Thankful For

Younger children can draw freely—a favorite toy, a beloved pet, a sibling’s smile. Older children can practice careful observation, sketching a still life of autumn’s bounty: apples, pumpkins, gourds, wheat. Display the drawings together or add them to gratitude journals. Drawing trains the eye to see and the hand to render beauty, grounding abstract gratitude in concrete images.

Time: 15 minutes | Who: Individual

11. Five Senses Gratitude

Name one thing you’re grateful for that you can see, hear, smell, taste, and touch. This exercise grounds thanksgiving in the physical world God created. You might be grateful for the sight of your child reading, the sound of rain on the roof, the smell of bread baking, the taste of apples fresh from the orchard, the feel of a hand slipping into yours.

Record these in your gratitude journal.

Time: 5 minutes | Who: Individual or family

12. Gratitude Nature Journal

On your next nature walk, collect a leaf, seed pod, acorn, or small natural object. Press it in your Nature Sketch Journal and write why you’re thankful for God’s creation. Perhaps the acorn reminds you that God grows mighty oaks from small beginnings. Perhaps the milkweed pod speaks of provision for monarchs on their long journey south. Let nature teach your children to see God’s hand everywhere.

Time: 20 minutes | Who: Individual | Classical connection: Nature study

13. Stargazing & Thanksgiving

On a clear evening, bundle up and look at the stars together. Recite Psalm 8:3-4: “When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them?” Thank God for His vastness and His care, for the way He numbers the stars and knows your children by name.

Journal about the experience afterward, capturing both the wonder of the sky and the comfort of being known.

Time: 15 minutes | Who: Family

Listen to Refining Rhetoric: Thank YOU!

Memory & Narration (Days 14-17)

14. Tell a Family Gratitude Story

Parents, share a story from your childhood about a time someone showed you kindness—a neighbor who brought soup when you were sick, a teacher who believed in you, a friend who stood by you. Tell it with detail and warmth. Then invite your children to narrate it back in their own words, practicing the classical skill of oral narration.

Stories form us. When children hear accounts of gratitude lived out, they learn what thanksgiving looks like in real life.

Time: 10-15 minutes | Who: Family | Classical connection: Narration

15. “Alphabet of Gratitude” Recitation

Go through the alphabet together, naming something you’re thankful for that starts with each letter. A is for apples and autumn. B is for books and bread. C is for community and Christ. Let younger children call out words freely. Challenge older children to think of items related to your studies—artists, composers, historical figures, scientific terms.

This exercise trains memory, expands vocabulary, and fills the mind with thanksgiving.

Time: 10 minutes | Who: Family

16. Memorize a Gratitude Quote

Choose a quote to memorize and recite together. Try Cicero: “Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.” Or G.K. Chesterton: “When it comes to life, the critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude.”

Practice reciting it together throughout the week. Copy it into journals in beautiful handwriting. Let the words shape the way your family thinks about thanksgiving.

Time: 5 minutes | Who: Family | Classical connection: Memory work

17. Gratitude Memory Timeline

Create a visual timeline of your year so far (January through November). Have each family member add drawings or words representing moments they’re grateful for from each month.

This helps children practice sequencing and reflection while celebrating God’s faithfulness throughout the year.

Time: 20-30 minutes | Who: Family | Classical connection: Timeline work, chronological thinking

Explore 6 Fun Thanksgiving Homeschool Activities

Service & Community (Days 18-23)

18. Write Thank-You Notes

Children write cards to teachers, Tutors, Directors, pastors, neighbors, or anyone who has enriched their lives. Be specific: “Thank you for teaching me about the Trojan War. I loved hearing you tell the story of the wooden horse.” Specificity shows that you’ve truly noticed and appreciated someone’s gift.

Address the envelopes together. Mail them or hand-deliver them. Watch your children’s faces as they realize their words have power to encourage.

Time: 15-20 minutes | Who: Individual

19. Bake and Share

Make cookies, muffins, or pumpkin bread together as a family. Package them in simple bags tied with ribbon and deliver them to a neighbor, your mail carrier, a firefighter at the local station, or someone who serves your community faithfully. Include a handwritten note: “Thank you for serving our neighborhood. We’re grateful for you.”

Gratitude moves from word to deed when we give our time and our hands to blessing others.

Time: 1-2 hours | Who: Family

20. Donate Outgrown Items

Go through toys, books, and clothes together. Let children choose items to give to families in need. Talk about what it means to share from our abundance, to recognize that everything we have is a gift from God to be stewarded with open hands.

Deliver the items together if possible. Pray for the families who will receive them. Reflect on the experience in journals: How did it feel to give? What did you learn about gratitude and generosity?

Time: 30-45 minutes | Who: Family

21. Serve at a Food Bank or Soup Kitchen

Volunteer as a family to serve a meal, sort donations, or pack boxes for families in need. Service teaches children that gratitude isn’t passive—it’s active, embodied, and often requires us to see beyond our own walls. When children serve alongside their parents, they learn that thanksgiving and generosity are intertwined.

Time: 2-3 hours | Who: Family

22. “I’m Thankful for You” Notes

Each family member writes encouraging notes to one another, expressing specific gratitude. “I’m thankful for the way you always make me laugh.” “I’m thankful that you help me with my math.” Hide the notes around the house to be discovered throughout the day—tucked into a lunchbox, slipped under a pillow, taped to the bathroom mirror.

This practice builds up community within your home, reminding each person that they are seen, valued, and loved.

Time: 20 minutes | Who: Family

23. Pray for Others

Make a list of people to pray for and thank God for them by name. Include community members, church family, missionaries, neighbors, and those in need. Thank God for the way He’s using them, for the gifts He’s given them, for the ways they reflect His image.

Praying with gratitude for others shifts our focus outward and trains our children to see people as gifts from God.

Time: 10 minutes | Who: Family

Listen to Over the River and Through the Woods – Thanksgiving on the Everyday Educator podcast

Creative Expression & Thanksgiving (Days 24-27)

24. Make a Gratitude Tree

Draw or craft a tree with branches on a large piece of poster board or butcher paper. Each day, add a paper leaf with something you’re thankful for written on it. By Thanksgiving, your tree will be full and vibrant, a visual reminder of abundance. Display it prominently in your home, letting it be a testimony to God’s faithfulness.

Time: Initial setup 20 minutes, daily 5 minutes | Who: Family

25. Gratitude Collage

Cut out images from magazines or print photos that represent blessings in your life—faces of loved ones, favorite places, foods you enjoy, activities that bring joy, symbols of faith. Glue them onto poster board in a beautiful arrangement. This collage becomes a tangible expression of all you’re thankful for, a piece of art that celebrates abundance.

Time: 45 minutes | Who: Individual or family

26. Thanksgiving Poetry Recitation

Find a poem about gratitude, harvest, or thanksgiving to memorize and recite. Psalm 65 is a beautiful choice, with its imagery of God crowning the year with bounty. Or try a selection from the New World Echoes storybook. Practice reciting it with expression, attending to rhythm, pacing, and tone. On Thanksgiving Day, invite children to recite it for family gathered around your table.

Recitation is a classical practice that trains the voice, the memory, and the heart. When children stand and speak words of thanksgiving aloud, those words take root.

Time: 15 minutes | Who: Family | Classical connection: Recitation

27. Thanksgiving Day Recitation & Reflection

On Thanksgiving, gather your family before the meal. Recite Psalm 100 or the psalm you’ve been memorizing all month together as an act of worship. Then read through your gratitude journals or empty your gratitude jar, letting each person share a favorite entry. Celebrate all God has done. Give thanks for His faithfulness, His provision, His presence.

This final activity brings the month full circle, from the first journal entry to this moment of gathered thanksgiving. You’ve spent twenty-seven days training your children’s hearts to notice, name, and worship. You’ve woven gratitude into the fabric of November. And now, around your Thanksgiving table, that gratitude becomes a song of praise.

Time: 15 minutes | Who: Family

Gratitude as a Way of Life

As you complete this month of gratitude activities for families, your children’s gratitude journals will become treasured keepsakes—tangible reminders of God’s faithfulness and your family’s growth in thanksgiving. The classical tradition teaches us that habits form character, that repetition makes permanent what might otherwise be fleeting. Through daily practice, you’re not simply teaching your children to say “thank you.” You’re forming in them a posture of wonder, a habit of noticing beauty, and a reflex of worship that will serve them for a lifetime.

Download your free printable gratitude journal for children and begin building this beautiful habit today. Let this month be the beginning of a lifetime of thanksgiving—a lifetime of noticing God’s hand, naming His gifts, and worshiping the One who crowns the year with His bounty.

“Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.” —Psalm 100:4-5

Download your gratitude journal

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Cultivating Faithfulness in Homeschooling https://classicalconversations.com/blog/cultivate-faithfulness/ Mon, 03 Nov 2025 09:00:10 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/?p=2144 Cultivating faithfulness in homeschooling begins with a beautiful truth: when we trust in the Lord and do good, His faithfulness inspires faithfulness in us. We are cultivating something precious in our homes that extends far beyond our own families. Every morning you open the Bible with your children, every lesson taught with patience, every moment […]

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Cultivating faithfulness in homeschooling begins with a beautiful truth: when we trust in the Lord and do good, His faithfulness inspires faithfulness in us. We are cultivating something precious in our homes that extends far beyond our own families. Every morning you open the Bible with your children, every lesson taught with patience, every moment you choose to trust God’s provision over your own fears, you’re cultivating faithfulness in your homeschool and passing it along to the next generation.

After homeschooling through Classical Conversations and graduating two children, Andrea Newitt discovered that faithfulness is less about what we accomplish and more about who we trust. In this article, Andrea shares that when you trust Him, you cultivate something that will flourish in your children’s lives and encourage other homeschooling families on the same journey. Your faithfulness today becomes someone else’s inspiration tomorrow.

Discovering God’s Faithfulness in Scripture

Years ago at a women’s retreat, I received a scroll with the verse “Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and cultivate faithfulness” (Psalm 37:3, NASB). Isn’t that a lovely passage? Cultivate has such a deep, rich connotation, involving growth, development, even flourishing. When I looked up the verse in my Bible, however, I discovered that in the NIV, the passage reads “Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.” What in the world do “cultivate faithfulness” and “enjoy safe pasture” have in common, I wondered.

For months, I meditated on the two versions of that verse. As many of you might know, to meditate on Scripture can mean to ruminate or to chew on something, as a cow chews on its cud. Therefore, that’s just what I did. During my day-to-day activities, I enjoyed my safe pasture, a happy California cow chewing on my cud of “cultivate faithfulness” whenever the verse came to mind, until one day I pictured a gardener picking flowers and passing them out to others. Then it occurred to me . . . “What if it wasn’t my faithfulness but God’s faithfulness the passage referred to?”

The Connection Between Translations

That perspective gave the verse a completely new meaning. I could finally see the connection between the two translations: God’s faithfulness provides us with safe pasture. A quick look at BibleGateway.com confirms that in the NASB the verse can also be translated as:

  • “Feed securely”
  • “Feed on His faithfulness”
  • “Verily thou shalt be fed” (KJV)
  • “Befriend faithfulness” (ESV)

The key to cultivating faithfulness is found in the first part of that verse. Notice that all four translations begin the same way: “Trust in the Lord and do good.” His faithfulness inspires faithfulness in us. In turn, our faithfulness encourages others to be faithful. Just as a gardener gives away a flower, we can pass along faithfulness to others.

Christian Homeschool Encouragement for the Journey

At times, we all could use encouragement to trust God in our homeschooling efforts. Juggling family life as a wife, a mother, and a teacher is hard. Rewards abound, but so do interruptions, conflicts, and unexpected struggles. Added doubts often creep in when we reach the high school years and worry that we are not equipped to educate our children at home. Even the most dedicated among us can be tempted to give in to fear.

Taking the time to reflect on our reasons for homeschooling and to recognize simple gifts from our loving Father can help us overcome those obstacles and follow through on our commitment, sometimes with greater ease than we expected. Through this process, we cultivate faithfulness, we become yet another family that has successfully homeschooled through high school, and we encourage others to be faithful.

A Celebration of Faithfulness

In May, we held a high school graduation ceremony for our son and older daughter. It was a wonderful celebration attended by a mixture of fellow homeschoolers and friends from our neighborhood, church, and various community activities. We set up a display table with items from our son and daughter’s more recent school days. The table was decorated in a beach theme with lighthouses, sand, and candles shaped like shells and a starfish to accompany our school name, Lighthouse Academy, and our school motto, “Let light shine out of darkness” (in Latin: de tenebris lux splendescat) from 2 Corinthians 4:6.

The evening was lighthearted, filled with laughter as well as a few tears, and a highlight for many occurred when we all marched around the room, out the door, into the hallway, and back in the other door, playing “Pomp and Circumstance” on kazoos.

My part in the ceremony was to introduce the two graduates prior to their short speeches, giving the audience a glimpse of the interests and talents my children had developed over the years. I also took the opportunity to share about the two choir songs from our church service the previous Sunday, explaining that they embodied our vision for homeschooling.

“Let Us Be Your Light” alludes to “A beacon of Your mercy” and “A light upon the hill,” and “A Song for the Nations” speaks of “A shining light” and “A word of hope.” I expressed our desire to bring light into a dark world, to let others know there is a God, a good God, who loves us and wants what is best for us.

Trust God in Homeschooling Through Trials

At the ceremony, I did not, however, share about the odd year we had just experienced. It certainly wasn’t the kind of senior year I would have chosen for my children. Late last July, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I started my first round of chemotherapy on the Friday before Labor Day and finished the second round in mid-December. In early February, I had surgery to remove lymph nodes and what was left of the lump. I finished 6-1/2 weeks of daily radiation on the Friday before Mother’s Day.

Our Challenge IV school year was disrupted with medical appointments and a lot of resting on my part, as the treatments took their toll. I had to adjust my goals, but the year did not turn out to be an academic disaster; in fact, as my two high school seniors graduated I was able to announce at their ceremony that they were just two classes short of completing a full year of college.

He has prepared you, too, for we are His workmanship, “created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do” (Ephesians 2:10).

Practical Ways to Stay the Course in Homeschooling

Biblical perseverance in homeschooling isn’t about perfection or never struggling. It’s about returning again and again to the One who is faithful when we are weak. Here are some gentle practices that can help sustain you on this journey:

  • Anchor yourself in a “life verse” for your homeschool. Whether it’s Psalm 37:3, Deuteronomy 6:6-7, or another passage that speaks to your family’s calling, write it down, post it where you’ll see it daily, and return to it when doubts arise. Let Scripture be the pasture where you feed.
  • Keep a simple gratitude record. On hard days, jot down one small grace—a child’s question that led to wonder, a moment of laughter, a lesson that finally clicked. Over time, these become a testament to God’s faithfulness woven through your ordinary days.
  • Connect with other faithful homeschoolers. We were not meant to walk this road alone. Whether through your CC community, a church community, or even a trusted friend you text on discouraging days, let others remind you of truth when your vision grows dim.
  • Remember that God’s strength is made perfect in weakness. When you feel inadequate—and you will—resist the urge to strive harder in your own power. Instead, bring your insufficiency to the Lord and ask Him to work through you. He delights in using the weak to confound the wise.
  • Adjust your expectations without abandoning your calling. Faithfulness doesn’t mean rigid perfection. Sometimes it looks like gentleness with yourself and your children, like adapting your plans when life intrudes, like trusting that God’s purposes will be accomplished even through the interruptions.
  • Cultivate wonder alongside knowledge. Point your children’s eyes—and your own—toward the beauty and order of God’s creation. Let your homeschool be a place where learning leads to worship, where every subject whispers of the One who made all things.

Encouragement for Christian Parents: Find Us Faithful

On Sunday our church choir will be singing “Find Us Faithful.” John Mohr’s lyrics remind us “We’re pilgrims on the journey of the narrow road.” They encourage us to leave “the heritage of faithfulness passed on through Godly lives.” Those exhortations have particular significance for us as homeschoolers and extra depth for those of us who homeschool through high school. We might sing with quivering voices of uncertainty at times, wondering if we are capable enough for the task at hand. But as our voices blend together, by faith, we become a great cloud of witnesses who do not grow weary or lose heart. When we cultivate faithfulness in our lives, we inspire a chorus of faithfulness.

Oh, may all who come behind us find us faithful.
May the fire of our devotion light their way.
May the footprints that we leave lead them to believe,
And the lives we live inspire them to obey.
Oh, may all who come behind us find us faithful.[1]

Dive into more encouragement for your homeschool journey with these resources:

[1] Jon Mohr, “Find Us Faithful” (Jonathan Mark Music and Birdwing Music, 1987)

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Special Needs in Homeschool Community: How CC Communities Support Every Learner https://classicalconversations.com/blog/special-needs-in-community/ Wed, 17 Sep 2025 09:00:59 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/?p=16198 Classical Conversations communities offer a place for families with special needs through genuine belonging and a homeschool community that sees every child as fearfully and wonderfully made. Many families navigating learning differences, autism, ADHD, sensory processing challenges, or physical disabilities feel uncertain about the search for communities that genuinely understand neurodiversity while maintaining high academic […]

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Classical Conversations communities offer a place for families with special needs through genuine belonging and a homeschool community that sees every child as fearfully and wonderfully made.

Many families navigating learning differences, autism, ADHD, sensory processing challenges, or physical disabilities feel uncertain about the search for communities that genuinely understand neurodiversity while maintaining high academic standards. It can feel overwhelming—especially when you’re already juggling therapies, appointments, and the unique rhythms of homeschooling a child with special needs.

Christina Bottomly experienced this reality when her son Sebastian’s life changed overnight due to a rare form of polio. What she discovered was remarkable: their CC community didn’t retreat in uncertainty—they responded with Christ-like love through practical action.

This story reflects a broader truth across Classical Conversations communities nationwide. Families with special needs don’t just find accommodation—they discover belonging, practical partnership, and educational approaches that honor each child’s unique design while seeking to know God and to make Him known.

Finding a Homeschool Community to Fit Your Special Needs

The term “special needs” encompasses a broad spectrum of learning differences and challenges. Special needs encompass a broad range of conditions, including developmental delays, autism spectrum disorder (ASD), sensory processing disorders, speech and language impairments, physical disabilities, and more. From mild learning disabilities to significant developmental delays, from attention challenges to physical limitations, every child’s needs are unique.

Why Classical Education Works for Neurodiversity in Homeschool

What sets Classical Conversations apart in the special needs homeschool community landscape is its foundational belief that every child bears the image of God and deserves a beautiful education. This isn’t merely a philosophical statement—it’s a practical commitment that shapes how communities welcome families and adapt their approaches.

Classical education is for any student who desires to desire learning. The best classical schools understand that the point is not to teach just one type of student. An excellent classical school works to include and instruct every student. This principle is fundamental to CC homeschool communities, where the focus remains on cultivating wonder, wisdom, and virtue in every learner.

Unlike traditional co-ops that may view special needs students as requiring separate programs or extensive modifications, Classical Conversations communities embrace an inclusive model where children with varying abilities learn alongside their peers, each receiving the support they need to engage with the rich classical curriculum.

We Believe So We Build Community

The Parent-Tutor-Student Triangle in Action

The Parent-Tutor-Student partnership is a collaborative model that proves especially beneficial for families with special needs. In this partnership, parents remain the primary educators, Tutors help both parents and students sharpen their classical skills of learning, and students benefit from consistent, unified support.

For special needs families, this triangle creates multiple layers of understanding and advocacy. Parents bring intimate knowledge of their child’s learning patterns, triggers, strengths, and needs. They understand whether their child needs movement breaks, prefers visual or auditory processing, or requires specific behavioral strategies.

Tutors model classical pedagogy and content while remaining flexible in delivery methods. Every CC program level has an open-door policy for parents, and in Foundations and Essentials, parents must attend seminar with their students to learn from the Tutor and assist when needed.

Parent Tutor Student Triangle - A Partnership

Collaborative Accommodations in Classical Education

Collaboration between parents, therapists, and Tutors is essential to communicate specific, achievable goals tailored to each child’s abilities and challenges. As the parent and teacher, regularly assessing progress and adjusting strategies as needed will help you share the joy of lifelong learning with your student. This ongoing communication ensures that accommodations remain effective and evolve with the child’s changing needs.

The Parent-Tutor-Student partnership also provides consistency during community and at home. When a child struggles with writing due to dysgraphia, the parent can communicate effective strategies to the Tutor, who can then implement these during community day. The student experiences unified support rather than conflicting approaches, reducing anxiety and increasing confidence.

Most importantly, this collaborative partnership prevents the isolation that many special needs families experience. Instead of feeling like they’re managing challenges alone, parents find themselves supported by Tutors who view their child as a whole person, not simply a collection of deficits.

Christina’s Story: When Reality Meets Community

Christina Bottomly never expected disability to touch her family. “I felt I had already had my share of hardships and surely God would not add more,” she reflects. But when her son Sebastian contracted a rare variant of polio in 2016, their world shifted overnight.

Sebastian went from being “a highly energetic and athletic little boy to being barely able to turn his head.” The journey ahead would involve thousands of hours of therapy, over 400 nights in hospitals, and more than a dozen major medical procedures. Today, he walks with forearm crutches and continues fighting for recovery while still praying for complete healing.

Sebastian standing  Sebastian hospital.

Sebastian crutches

Community Response to Special Needs Families

During this overwhelming season, Christina discovered the true nature of community. “Most people withdrew from us. No one knew what to say, and honestly, there’s nothing they could have said that would have been right,” she shares. “But our CC family responded with few words and a whole lot of action.”

The practical support came in countless forms: CC moms took her other children sledding, brought meals, sent care packages, and opened their homes so her older daughter Reagan wouldn’t study alone. When Christina, a Challenge B Tutor, worried about failing her Challenge B students due to Sebastian’s medical needs, the parents prayed over her and thanked God for her influence in their children’s lives. Her Local Representative took over Mock Trial when she went into early labor just two days before the trial date.

Long-term Classical Conversations Special Needs Benefits

But perhaps most significantly, Classical Conversations provided educational stability during chaos. When they traveled for medical treatments, other CC communities offered housing and logistical support. The consistent content, structure, and pedagogy between communities gave them stability during ongoing crises. When they relocated to access better care, they found instant connection through shared CC culture.

“Now that my daughter’s studies have taken her far from home, she has found instant friends when she runs into CC graduates, even when traveling as far as Switzerland, England, Germany, and Rome,” Christina notes. “She has only to intonate ‘In 800 AD…’ and scan for the looks of recognition to find members of her extended CC community.”

Christina’s story illustrates how special needs support of Classical Conversations extends far beyond classroom accommodations—it creates lasting community that follows families wherever life leads them.

Practical Accommodations in Classical Education

Classical education’s structured, multi-sensory approach naturally accommodates many learning differences, but specific accommodations can enhance access for students with various needs. The key lies in maintaining the integrity of classical methodology while adapting delivery methods.

Learning Disabilities and Dyslexia Support

For students with learning disabilities like dyslexia, parents can implement several practical strategies at home.

  • Allow students to learn content from audiobooks while reading along with print versions.
  • Utilize CC Connected audio versions of Foundations memory work
  • Challenge programs balance assessing students’ knowledge through oral and written assignments. Adjust assignments to fit your student’s needs.
  • Challenge Tutors will often take pictures of board notes from class conversations. Look for these notes to help continue the discussions during the week.
  • Tailor student assignments to include oral dictation or abbreviated writing assignments based on student ability.

The classical emphasis on oral recitation and discussion particularly benefits these students, as it allows them to demonstrate knowledge and engage with content without the barrier of written output.

ADHD Accommodations in Homeschool Community

Accommodations work best when they are tailored for the individual needs of the student based on the severity and symptoms of their ADHD and any other co-occurring conditions. For students with attention challenges, CC Tutors can provide:

  • Preferential seating near the Tutor to avoid distractions
  • Using a variety of movement techniques to engage students with Foundations new Grammar
  • Five-minute warnings before transitioning between activities
  • Posted schedules and clear routines
  • Movement breaks between strands

The structured nature of CC’s classical approach actually supports ADHD students by providing predictable routines and clear expectations. The variety within each Foundations class—from new grammar to fine arts to memory work review—keeps attention engaged while building knowledge systematically.

Autism Support in Community

Students on the autism spectrum benefit from the predictable structure classical education provides, but may need additional support strategies:

  • Visual timers to help with transitions
  • Multisensory instruction that engages various learning channels
  • Speech-to-text software or parent scribing for written work
  • Peer buddy systems for social navigation
  • Provide advance notice of sensitive subjects and the opportunity to opt out
  • Immediate and frequent positive feedback
  • Provide reassurance of the student’s safety, especially in triggering situations (loud noises, approaching storms, etc.)

The classical model’s emphasis on routine, clear expectations, and incremental skill building creates an environment where autistic students can thrive. Many find comfort in the predictability of memory work and the logical progression of grammar concepts.

While CC communities are eager to support families in creating positive learning experiences, parents remain the primary advocates for their child’s specific needs and work collaboratively with tutors to determine what accommodations are feasible within the community setting.

Sensory Processing and Physical Disabilities

For students with sensory processing challenges or physical disabilities, accommodations focus on environmental modifications and adaptive instruments:

  • Noise-reducing headphones during large group experiences for sensitive students
  • Fidget items that don’t distract other learners
  • Flexible seating arrangements
  • Modified fine arts activities
  • Adaptive writing instruments or alternative recording methods
  • Close collaboration with parents to understand specific triggers and helpful strategies

Physical disabilities require individualized approaches based on each student’s abilities and needs. The key is working closely with parents to identify practical solutions that maintain learning objectives while accommodating physical limitations that are attainable within the community.

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Loving Our Neighbors: Building Inclusive Communities

Christ calls us to love our neighbors as ourselves, and in Classical Conversations communities, this biblical principle shapes how we welcome and support each family. When we foster an inclusive environment that embraces all learners—regardless of ability level—we reflect God’s heart for His people and create communities where everyone can flourish.

Creating Inclusive Special Needs Homeschool Community Culture

Classical Conversations communities can foster this inclusive environment by:

Modeling Biblical Truth About Human Value: Every person, regardless of ability level, bears God’s image and contributes uniquely to the community. This fundamental truth shapes how families approach differences and challenges stereotypes.

Promoting Natural Integration: Rather than segregating students with special needs, CC communities emphasize natural inclusion where children with varying abilities learn side by side. This builds empathy, reduces fear of differences, and creates lasting friendships.

Celebrating Diverse Strengths: Some students excel at memory work, others contribute artistic talent, and still others bring unique perspectives to discussions. Communities thrive when they recognize and celebrate these diverse contributions.

Building Empathy Through Neurodiversity in Homeschool

Modeling Grace and Patience: Parents get overwhelmed with loud noises, stressed out, confused over social expectations, just like their kids deal with, but hopefully, they have better coping abilities. Anticipate that and treat people with grace. When communities model patience and understanding, children learn to extend the same grace to their peers.

Practical Classical Conversations Special Needs Resources

CC communities can enhance their special needs support by:

Parent Orientation and Communication: During Parent Orientations, Tutors should discuss potential accommodations and how they might impact all students, such as whether a student will be using a wheelchair or whether a hearing-impaired student might have a mom signing to him during New Grammar. This proactive approach will reduce anxiety that might arise from other children and will build understanding among families.

Resource Sharing: Experienced families can mentor newcomers, sharing strategies, resource recommendations, and encouragement. This peer support often proves more valuable than professional advice.

Flexible Participation: While Foundations and Essentials families will attend community day with their special needs child, Challenge parents may also be a part of community day to provide guidance without disrupting others’ learning. Communities should embrace this partnership model.

Understanding the Whole Family: Realize that special needs kids probably have special needs parents. Odds are that if a child has ADHD, his parent may have ADHD as well. Supporting the whole family creates stronger community bonds.

The Journey Continues

Classical Conversations communities offer something rare in educational settings: a place where academic excellence coexists with genuine belonging.

For families navigating special needs, the journey begins with prayerful discernment about whether CC community aligns with your child’s learning needs and your family’s educational goals. While communities are eager to support families and work collaboratively on feasible accommodations, parents should thoughtfully evaluate if the classical model and community structure will serve their child well.

Every child deserves access to truth, goodness, and beauty, and for many families, Classical Conversations communities provide that access wrapped in community love, practical support, and the unwavering belief that each child can grow in wisdom and stature.

The path may require adaptations, patience, and creative problem-solving, with parents working together within realistic boundaries. When there’s a good fit, the destination remains the same: young people equipped with knowledge, virtue, and the confidence to serve God and others with their unique gifts.

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The Secret to Time Management: Tips for Homeschooling Families https://classicalconversations.com/blog/the-secret-to-time-management/ Mon, 18 Aug 2025 09:00:13 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/blog/the-secret-to-time-management/ Have you noticed how hard it is to teach something you do not really know yourself? Many of us struggle with time management ourselves, so how can we hope to teach our children to “do as we say, not as we do?” The good news is that we can learn along with them! Truths About […]

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Have you noticed how hard it is to teach something you do not really know yourself? Many of us struggle with time management ourselves, so how can we hope to teach our children to “do as we say, not as we do?” The good news is that we can learn along with them!

Truths About Time Management

Any homeschooling parent knows how easily the day can slip away. Ever wake up in the morning excited to achieve many learning goals for the day and then — bam! — all of a sudden the day is over? Well, to master time management skills, first we need to acknowledge several truths about time and time management:

1. We Don’t Own Time

Homeschooling parents know all too well how important it is to take advantage of those “little moments” to be productive and achieve learning goals. Even so, the first truth about time management that we need to recognize is that we do not own our time, nor did we create it. Instead, we are stewards of the time God gives us.

2. Time Is Not Evil

Time is not evil, even though we sometimes feel it is a cruel master, squeezing us and forcing us into difficult positions. God created time and pronounced it good along with the rest of His Creation!

3. We Are Called to Manage Our Time Well

As stewards, we are called to handle well what is in our charge until the master returns. Ecclesiastes 3 tells us there is a time for everything and as stewards we must discover how to use this resource wisely.

4. Using Time Requires Balance

Using our time well requires balance. A corollary is that balance is much easier to maintain when things are not upside down!

5. Time Management Requires Being Realistic

Being a good steward of time means being realistic. Even the best time manager in the world cannot manufacture more hours for each day. Too much of a good thing is not “too good;” often, it is just “too much!”

A Time Management Plan

How do we learn to respect time, make wise, intentional choices, find balance, and become realistic enough to say “no” to good things? Well, we can pray, plan, provide, and model.

1. Pray

We earnestly seek God’s wisdom. Don’t just ask, “Please, please, please help me get it all done!” We need to sit with Him and ask Him to show us what is important to Him and what is not. God gives us time to do all He calls us to do. If we do not have enough time, we are clearly taking on things He did not call us to! When we take on things others call us to—or things we call ourselves to—we make problems like busyness that leads to crabbiness, crises that could have been avoided, too little sleep, too much caffeine, loss of joy, and loss of witness to God’s power.

2. Plan

The simpler our plans are, the more likely they are accomplished. When we get too specific, things go astray very easily; it does not take much to derail a detailed plan! Start your plan with an outline of what you need to accomplish. List your spheres of responsibility: home, school, church, self. Then add some of your most basic goals. These will provide the framework for all the choices you make with your time. Let me say to those of us who love to plan: planning can become an excuse to avoid doing. Remember, the purpose of a plan is to implement a strategy, not to hide our lack of actual progress!

3. Provide

We need to provide some guidance for ourselves when we first attempt to get a handle on our time. Schedule in some margin or “white space” that we deem equally as important as our commitments to others. We may need to erect some boundaries for others who are accustomed to having us as answers to all their voiced needs. Provide some resources, such as other people (“many hands make light work”) or the right tools to get the job done.

4. Model

We need to find mentors or models of good time management. We need encouragers who will understand our quest for margin, balance, wholeness, and sanity. We need prayer partners who will journey with us. Each of us need help from others to say “no” to good things, and we need people who will not make us feel guilty for making choices that fit our family values but may disappoint others. If you’re a part of a homeschool community such as Classical Conversations, rely on those other parents for support, accountability, and guidance.

How to Teach Your Children Time Management Skills

Now, to teach our children time management using these four steps is the next challenge!

  1. Pray for your children and with them about the use of their time. They need to understand that this is an important issue to confront and master.
  2. Plan with your children. Assess your own personality and your child’s personality and lay out clear expectations. Be reasonable about what needs to be accomplished. Do not overestimate your time, resources, interests, and ability to motivate.
  3. Provide your children with guidance, support, resources, and encouragement. Early on we may need to supply many of the goals and plans, too!
  4. Model good time management skills for your children. They need an example to follow, not one to avoid.

Naturally, this journey toward good time management is a process, learned a little at a time. As nurturing parents, we talk about it, model it, demonstrate it, and help them do it, and then we stand back and let them go. When they are ready for independence, hopefully they are ready for independence!

Not yet a Classical Conversations member and interested in our community-based approach to homeschooling? We’d love to hear from you. To learn more about us, click here.

Originally posted by Lisa Bailey on Thursday, 18 July, 2013. 

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How to Get a Head Start on Next Semester https://classicalconversations.com/blog/head-start-on-next-semester/ Mon, 05 May 2025 09:00:14 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/?p=6205 How to Prepare for School While Still Enjoying Summer Summer break is finally here — time to rest, recharge, and enjoy a slower pace. It’s also the perfect opportunity to prepare for school in simple, stress-free ways. If you’re wondering how to prepare for the homeschool year over summer without sacrificing rest and fun, you’re […]

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How to Prepare for School While Still Enjoying Summer

Summer break is finally here — time to rest, recharge, and enjoy a slower pace. It’s also the perfect opportunity to prepare for school in simple, stress-free ways. If you’re wondering how to prepare for the homeschool year over summer without sacrificing rest and fun, you’re not alone. This post offers simple strategies to help you do just that.

 

4 Ways to Get Ahead for Next Semester

Here are four simple things you can do this summer to ensure a successful kick-off for the fall semester:

1. Continue Learning Throughout the Summer

Many homeschool parents worry that their students will forget information learned during the previous semester while on summer break. With this mindset, it’s easy to anticipate a slow start to the fall semester due to relearning material already covered.

However, this doesn’t have to be the case! Indeed, there are many ways to continue to learn throughout the summer that don’t involve homeschooling year-round, from memorizing a Bible verse each week to starting your own book club.

Also, remember that not all learning occurs in front of a book. There are many other ways to learn — some even more practical than reading — that your student will have time for this summer, like working a summer job or taking an art class.

If you’re looking for more ways to continue learning with your student this summer, read our post “Summer Homeschool Activities to Keep the Mind Active.”

2. Plan and Purchase Your Resources for Next Semester

Have you ever arrived in August scrambling to find homeschool resources, ordering books last minute before the semester starts?

Unless this upcoming academic year is your first homeschooling your child, many parents can relate to this scenario. After all, whenever summer rolls around, we can easily put homeschooling “on hold” and procrastinate planning for the next semester.

But it will be here before you know it. So, one way to get a head start on next semester is to choose and order your resources now so your family can slide into next semester with zero stress about which books you need, if there will be any copies still available, and whether they’ll ship before your family begins your first community day of the academic year.

Plan now so you can enjoy the rest of your summer stress-free. CC members enjoy free shipping on orders of $50 or more at the Classical Conversations bookstore, plus you automatically get discounted member pricing. Be sure to check out all the resources!

3. Attend a Homeschool Convention

Attending a homeschool convention is a convenient way to plan for next semester while also connecting with the larger homeschool community this summer.

Many large homeschool conventions — like Teach Them Diligently and Great Homeschool Conventions — travel to various locations nationwide, inviting exhibitors to showcase their homeschool curriculum and resources. You can easily invest in your professional development as a homeschool educator by visiting a homeschool convention in your area. It’s a great way to get ahead!

Should you visit a Teach Them Diligently or Great Homeschool Conventions event this summer, stop by our Classical Conversations booth and say hello!

Also, if you’re wondering whether homeschool conventions are even worth attending when it seems like you can find all your resources online these days, be sure to read “Homeschool Conventions: Helpful or Outdated?”

4. Join Us at Parent Practicum

Looking for ways to improve your classical skills of learning this summer? Then join us at a Parent Practicum!

Throughout the summer, local Classical Conversations team leaders host Practicum events to help homeschool parents — whether Classical Conversations members or not — discover and practice the classical skills of learning.

Each year, Practicum focuses on equipping homeschool parents with the fifteen skills of learning that enable us to have rich, meaningful conversations with our students about any new subject. During the event, you’ll practice these skills in discussions with other parents using science as your topic.

To sign up for a Practicum in your area, click here.

But Also… Enjoy Your Summer!

While all these are great ways to get a head start on next semester, remember that every homeschool parent needs a break now and then — even you. And summer brings that perfect opportunity for you to rest.

In other words, you don’t have to do everything on this list. If planning for next semester is already causing you stress, wait a few weeks before you begin, taking time to rest.

If you’re ready to get a head start on next semester right now, be sure to check out our bookstore resources. Your member discounts will encourage you to get your fall semester shopping out of the way early so you can enjoy the rest of your summer. Happy shopping!

Summer Homeschool Prep: 5 Tips for Parents

  • Keep learning alive with light, engaging summer activities
  • Order curriculum early to avoid last-minute stress
  • Attend a homeschool convention near you
  • Join a Parent Practicum to grow in classical skills
  • Rest well. You don’t have to do it all at once.

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Understanding God’s Gift of Jesus Through Old Testament Stories https://classicalconversations.com/blog/gods-gift-of-jesus/ Wed, 11 Dec 2024 09:00:11 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/?p=13092 Christmas is a season of celebration, reflection, and anticipation—a time to look back on the year and look ahead with hope. For our Classical Conversations families, it’s also an opportunity to pause from the rhythms of homeschooling and focus on God’s greatest gift of all: Jesus Christ. In this Christmas message from Classical Conversations CEO […]

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Christmas is a season of celebration, reflection, and anticipation—a time to look back on the year and look ahead with hope. For our Classical Conversations families, it’s also an opportunity to pause from the rhythms of homeschooling and focus on God’s greatest gift of all: Jesus Christ.

In this Christmas message from Classical Conversations CEO Robert Bortins, we’ll explore how the stories of Noah, Abraham, and Jonah foreshadow the coming of Christ, revealing the redemptive thread woven throughout Scripture and pointing us to the true meaning of Christmas.

 

God’s Promise Fulfilled: Christmas Through the Lens of the Old Testament

As we approach the end of another year, we’re reminded of the journey we’ve taken with our children through the joy and challenges of learning together. The Christmas season offers us a pause to celebrate something far greater: the birth of Jesus Christ, our Lord.

Christmas is a reminder of God’s promised gift, foretold throughout the Old Testament—a second Adam who would conquer death and offer us a gift only God could give: eternal life. As we gather to exchange gifts with loved ones, we can reflect on the words from Matthew 7:11, “If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!”

In this season, I find myself reflecting on the stories of Noah, Abraham, and Jonah. Each of these stories, in a unique way, points to Christ’s coming and His ultimate sacrifice for us. They remind us of the hope, redemption, and mercy that we celebrate at Christmas, all of which are fulfilled in God’s gift of Jesus.

Noah: Trusting God’s Promise Through Obedience and Faith

In Noah’s time, human wickedness had grown so pervasive that God considered ending it all. But He found one righteous man: Noah. Noah and his family were spared from death, saved by their trust in God. For years, Noah built an ark despite never having seen rain, enduring ridicule from those around him. His faith preserved humanity—not through eternal salvation, but by carrying forward the bloodline from Adam. Many see the flood as a precursor to baptism: whereas the flood brought death, baptism is a public sign of the life we gain in Christ.

Abraham: The Sacrifice That Foreshadowed God’s Ultimate Gift

Abraham’s faith was tested when God asked him to sacrifice his son, Isaac. In obedience, Abraham prepared to carry out this unimaginable command, but God provided a ram to take Isaac’s place. On that day, Isaac carried the wood for his sacrifice up the hill. Centuries later, Jesus would carry His cross to Golgotha, and this time, there would be no intervention. God allowed His Son to be sacrificed, the ultimate and final offering for the sins of the world.

Jonah: Reluctance, Redemption, and the Mercy of God’s Plan

Unlike Noah and Abraham, Jonah resisted God’s command. Sent to preach to Nineveh, Jonah ran the other way, dreading that God’s mercy would save those he felt unworthy of forgiveness. God pursued him with a storm, and when the crew reluctantly cast Jonah overboard, the storm calmed. Jonah spent three days in the belly of a great fish before being sent back to complete his mission. Despite his reluctance, his message saved Nineveh, though he himself struggled with mercy’s reach. Where Jonah hesitated, Jesus submitted wholly to God’s plan, praying, “Not my will, but yours be done.”

Celebrating God’s Promise This Christmas Season

Each of these stories—and many others throughout Scripture—points us back to God’s greatest gift we celebrate at Christmas: a Savior who willingly came to live among us, who endured sacrifice for our sake, and who offers us the gift of eternal life. Because of His victory over death, we can now share this good news with others, making Him known in the world. May these stories inspire us to recognize the love and mercy given to us through Christ this season.

Merry Christmas to you and your family. May this season be filled with hope, peace, and the joy of Christ’s love.

 

At Classical Conversations, we believe homeschooling is not just about academics—it’s about knowing God and making Him known. If you’re looking for a community that equips parents and students to explore God’s truth through classical Christian education, we’d love to connect with you.

Visit Classical Conversations to learn more and start your journey.

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Faith, Family, and Community: The Testimony of Walker Purchase https://classicalconversations.com/blog/faith-family-and-community-the-testimony-of-walker-purchase/ Wed, 23 Oct 2024 09:00:54 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/?p=12717 “I will say to the Lord, ‘My refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.’” —Psalm 91:2 As Christians and students of history, we know that God uses trials and hardships to do His will and to draw us closer to Himself (James 1:12). The Purchase family, a Classical Conversations family in Apex, […]

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“I will say to the Lord, ‘My refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.’” —Psalm 91:2

As Christians and students of history, we know that God uses trials and hardships to do His will and to draw us closer to Himself (James 1:12). The Purchase family, a Classical Conversations family in Apex, North Carolina, certainly experienced trials and tribulations this year, but, as He promised he would, the Lord also blessed them immensely!

At the beginning of 2023, eight-year-old Walker Purchase, a third-year Foundations student and an excelling Essentials student, was diagnosed with a rare and life-threatening disease called severe aplastic anemia. This meant that Walker’s body was unable to produce enough blood cells to sustain him, leaving him highly vulnerable to infections and other complications. Without an immediate bone marrow transplant, the doctors estimated that he only had three months to live.

The Perfect Match

But praise the Lord because Walker was provided with a match! Amazingly, the match was no other than his little brother, Truett. Chelsey Purchase, the boy’s mother, related the family’s experience of finding a match, saying, “After his biopsy, over a dozen blood and platelet transfusions, chemotherapy, and other invasive procedures, the Lord blessed Walker with a match.  His younger seven-year-old brother Truett (also a CC student in Foundations) was a 100% match by the grace of God!”

Truett did not hesitate to undergo a two-hour bone marrow harvest procedure and a six-week recovery process in order to save his big brother’s life.

The Purchase family boys in the hospital.

“Truett was incredible… we are so grateful to God for his selflessness,” shared Chelsey.

After the boys’ surgeries, both began the journey down the road to recovery! Today, Walker has a brand-new immune system and is making strides toward a full recovery. Truett, as well, is recovering quickly and is thrilled to see his brother healing. Also, Marshall, the third Purchase son, has stuck by his brothers through it all and is keeping them in high spirits.

Faith in Action

Even through this intense and terrifying time, Walker did not allow his faith in the Lord to be shaken. His struggle became a testimony of God’s provision, grace, and comfort — not just to his family but for everyone around him.

During his time at Duke Hospital, Walker witnessed to the many doctors and nurses who took care of him. He even boldly proclaimed the gospel to the Duke men’s basketball team, who visited him while he was in the hospital. The players were so touched by Walker’s resilience and faith that they invited him to attend one of their games. While in attendance, Walker proudly held a sign with his favorite Bible verse (Psalm 91:2) for everyone to see!

Walker was diagnosed with severe aplastic anemia.

Community

While the Purchase family gives all glory to God for carrying them through this difficult time, they also credit Classical Conversations and their local community of friends for meeting their practical, daily needs.

In regard to Classical Conversations, the Purchase family rejoiced saying, “Due to Classical Conversations, we were able to homeschool at the hospital and the Ronald McDonald house.”

The boys, throughout their recovery, did more than just “get by” academically, they thrived! All three brothers advanced at least one academic year according to their most recent state test scores. What an accomplishment!

As Chesley reflects on this, she said, “The Lord knew our boys needed CC in order to not fall behind this past year and it gave us the opportunity to continue growing across many levels.”

Not only was the curriculum a blessing to Walker and his family, but their strong local community was as well!

“Our beautiful CC families served us during such a challenging season. They made sure we had everything we needed,” shared the family.

Their CC director, along with the boys’ tutors, ensured that the family had all the academic materials and emotional support they needed.

“They helped us continue to know the Lord and to make Him known in all areas, even while we were going through this hard time.”

With hearts full of gratitude and praise, the Purchase family looked towards the future. Walker recovered, and the family excitedly rejoined their Classical Conversations community in the late fall of 2023.

“We are beyond thankful to our Lord, Jesus Christ, and Classical Conversations for helping to carry us through such trauma and make us better because of it.”

Share Your Own Story!

The Purchase family’s journey is a powerful reminder of the strength that comes from faith, family, and community. If you or your family have a story of how Classical Conversations has impacted your life, we would love to hear it!

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Imagine a Table https://classicalconversations.com/blog/imagine-a-table/ Mon, 14 Oct 2024 09:00:37 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/?p=4258 Poetry is not merely expressive: it is expression. Poems, that is, do not merely talk about love or passion or emotion: they are the very sound of love, of passion, of emotion. —Invitation to the Psalms by Jacobson and Jacobson What Is Classical, Christian Education? An Allegory Imagine a table. A table burdened with baskets […]

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Poetry is not merely expressive: it is expression. Poems, that is, do not merely talk about love or passion or emotion: they are the very sound of love, of passion, of emotion.

Invitation to the Psalms by Jacobson and Jacobson

What Is Classical, Christian Education? An Allegory

Imagine a table.

A table burdened with baskets of bread—hot, still steaming. Crunchy crust and soft inside.
A table with too many cheeses to pronounce, let alone eat at one sitting.
A table of bottles and stemware, of bowls and ladles, of several forks and as many spoons.
A table of food and drink, of color and light, of flavor and aroma.

A table well-lit, well-stocked, and well-attended.
A table where gluten is our friend, and carbs turn into sugars at just the right time.
A table displaying and proclaiming the goodness of him who made it and gave it.
A table welcoming the stranger as well as the invited, both bearing the title “guest.”
Imagine a table lacking no good thing: beautiful in its own right.

But man shall not live by bread alone. As indispensable as physical nourishment is, we need more. Our appetites yearn for more than meat and drink, for more than bread and cheese. Our natures yearn for knowledge and understanding, for something to learn and something to say.

Imagine another table.

A table loaded with libraries of books: ripe for reading. Hardcovers and paperbacks.
A table with too many ideas to discuss, let alone comprehend, at one sitting.
A table of words and sentences, of numbers and equations, of several arts and as many sciences.
A table of trivium and quadrivium, of philosophy and theology, of wisdom and virtue.

A table well-versed, well-spoken, and well-attended.
A table where disagreement is amongst friends, and knowledge turns into understanding at just the right time.
A table displaying and proclaiming the goodness of him who made it and gave it.
A table welcoming the stranger as well as the invited, both bearing the title, “guest.”

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Is Homeschooling Worth It? A Testimony https://classicalconversations.com/blog/is-homeschooling-worth-it/ Mon, 07 Oct 2024 09:00:48 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/blog/things-homeschooling-is-good-at-benefits-of-homeschooling/ Is homeschooling worth it? To answer that question, I’ll share my story, and you can judge whether or not homeschooling is right for you. I was homeschooled until college. As some of my friends reached high school, their parents put them into the state establishment but not mine. My high school years were everything I […]

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Is homeschooling worth it? To answer that question, I’ll share my story, and you can judge whether or not homeschooling is right for you.

I was homeschooled until college. As some of my friends reached high school, their parents put them into the state establishment but not mine. My high school years were everything I needed, and I even took the luxury of an extra year before leaving for college.

Many parents feel a pressure to place children in public schools when they approach high school age. I think it has something to do with the accessibility of sports, programs, or even socialization. I can’t speak to this decision or to the pressures that drive it because I’m not a parent of a high school student. I can say that I turned out fine.

Here are some of the homeschooling benefits that twelve years provided me with.

I am acquainted with many books.

I’ve read many more books than would be assigned in typical school courses. This is not because I had extra brains for understanding them. This is because I was instilled with the drive to seek them out.

Does a public-schooled child have the time to seek out as much extracurricular reading material as I did? Yes. However, in the environment of the public school, knowledge is a thing that is worked through to graduate or get a job. The system very subtly teaches the student that knowledge is a hurdle.

On the other hand, when the parents administer knowledge, a child easily grasps that its purpose is the same as the gifts, the spankings, the medicine, the allowance, and the responsibilities also administered by parents—that it is good for him.

When knowledge is dispensed by strangers, the student has not learned that knowledge is good for him, only that it is a requirement. Do not underestimate the depth in which this doctrine embeds itself in a child. When a student falls into the habit of looking to his syllabus to see what is required of him (instead of looking at the wide world to see what is available to him), he has ceased to be a learner.

The home school is an environment where knowledge is to be loved as a parent is to be loved.

I am socially adaptable.

As a kid in any gathering of state-educated peers who hadn’t seen each other before (Boy Scouts, volunteer workers, new Bible study), I was always the first to extend my hand and break the awkward silence. It’s not because I was gregarious. I had as many butterflies as anyone else, and what I said was usually dumb—but it got people talking. It’s because I felt like no one else would. This thought made me deeply uncomfortable as a child, and I wondered silently whether the other kids knew something I didn’t.

As an adult, I am still struck by homeschooled kids’ ability to break the ice in new situations—even those who are quiet when in more familiar settings. But I’ve now come to the belief that this is normal: that it isn’t the ice-breaking that is taught to a child, but rather the ice—the fear of putting oneself forward, the desire for someone else to speak first—that is taught, subtly and relentlessly, by today’s school environment.

From the structure of public school, a child learns to associate first and foremost with his grade-level/classroom/clique. He learns that some people will hurt him. He learns that curriculum and procedure are handed down by principals and experts. Surely, to his receptive mind, “regular” people like himself and his parents are not qualified to take the initiative.

The result: put most kids in America today in a situation where they feel out of place, and you can see the walls go up. Rather than risk talking to anyone, they will text on their phones, stick close to the one person they know, and wait for someone else to take the lead. This comes from feelings of fear and inadequacy.

I do not wait, because I do not feel inadequate, and I attribute this to a thriving relationship with my mother, my first and best teacher.

I am thorough.

Growing up I felt, as I’m sure many homeschooled children have, that other kids didn’t care as much about getting the job done.

It wasn’t their fault—I had been carefully taught to value time.

The home school is often a world where the student does not evaluate himself based on a grade. It is often consequently a world where “good enough” isn’t.

However, a child growing up in public school learns about time too. He sits still for many hours, under the tutelage of an adult he does not know, who is speaking on a subject the child may not care about. If he does not happen upon an educator, who teaches him to love the hour he spends with her, the value of time in his mind has been depreciated.

I am filled with the love of knowledge and the blessings of home.

I paint in broad strokes because I have only experienced high school at home. Nevertheless, whether one learns at home for twelve years or transfers into state high school, the source of all these blessings is located in the home.

Parents who send their students to public high school may well have forgotten about that sense of Home: the sense in which it is spelled with a capital H.

Just as the imperfections of my own church do not nullify the authority of the institution of the Church, just as the imperfections of my own academy (college) experience do not nullify the blessings granted by the institution of the Academy, just as the imperfections in any marriage cannot be used as an example to undermine the sanctity of the institution of Marriage (though there are some who would argue), so, too, the imperfections of my own home could not nullify the blessings of living and growing within the institution of the Home.

A student in state high school may well experience these blessings at his particular home, and he may even be blessed with skillful state-employed teachers who care about him.

I have seen one young man excel in academics and even rise to student governmental office solely based on his aptitude for extemporaneous speech: an ability he had formerly picked up in Classical Conversations. Public school is not a place that destroys academic ambition. However, it is not a place which is able to teach it either, for only the Home, an institution governed by parents, not strangers, can do this.

For me, it was during the high-school years that I most needed to be filled with love, the love of learning and the social confidence, which come from the Home. I had a staunch enough faith to survive in state high school, and I don’t doubt that yours do—rather I fear for a child spending eight hours a day divorced from the academic vigor and leadership which public school was never meant to provide.

So, is homeschooling worth it? It certainly was for me. This whole essay can be summed up with Poor Richard’s proverb (though he was speaking of a different form of poverty): “’Tis hard for an empty sack to stand upright.” Homeschooling filled me with a love of learning, a love of books, a love of home. Homeschooling may be right for you, too.

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For further reading, check out this graduate’s perspective on the benefits of homeschooling.

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My Classical Conversations Story – CEO Robert Bortins https://classicalconversations.com/blog/my-classical-conversations-story/ Wed, 07 Aug 2024 18:30:28 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/blog/my-classical-conversations-story/ It was a beautiful, sunny day at Clemson University. I was in my sophomore year and had just dropped off my tuition check at the registrar’s office when I got a phone call from my mom, Leigh Bortins. We all have those moments in life that we remember so vividly. Typically, it’s something really life […]

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It was a beautiful, sunny day at Clemson University. I was in my sophomore year and had just dropped off my tuition check at the registrar’s office when I got a phone call from my mom, Leigh Bortins. We all have those moments in life that we remember so vividly. Typically, it’s something really life changing. My mom said, “Robert, your dad is thinking about getting you a car for college. He changed his mind, though, and quit his job. He is going to homeschool your younger brothers, and I am going to try to make Classical Conversations®  a real business. You’ll have to pay for the rest of college, yourself.” So, I went to the co-op office and asked what jobs they had available for the next semester.

Robert Bortins

Fortunately, because I was homeschooled, I was able to work as an engineering intern in my last two years of high school and had an impressive resume. This allowed me to get the highest paid co-op. In college, I would work for a semester and summer and then go to school for a semester. In those years, I experienced all kinds of living arrangements. I rented out a walk-in closet one year to sleep in. I slept on the top bunk at a family’s house for another year while their high schooler slept on the bottom. Eventually, I did get a car and, for one month, either lived out of it while it was still nice weather or crashed at different friends’ places; either way, it saved me a month of rent. Between student loans, saving money from my co-op job, working while taking eighteen hours of Engineering credits, switching state residencies to get in-state tuition, and learning how to roll credit card debt from one card to another—I was able to graduate in three and a half years of full-time schooling over a five-and-a-half-year period.

Read: “The Benefits of Homeschooling: A Graduate’s Perspective”

I think, at least once a semester, my mom would call to see if she could borrow some money from me to buy inventory to sell at a local homeschool curriculum fair or state organization event. “Robert, if I could borrow from you $1,000 this week, in one month, I will pay you back in full and give you interest on top of it,” she would ask. Then I would say, “Mom, all of my friends call their parents for money; this is not how this is supposed to be.”

Mom, all of my friends call their parents for money; this is not how this is supposed to be.”

– Robert Bortins

Like most single-income families, my stay-at-home mom was always looking for a side business to help with the family’s finances. My dad, also named Robert Bortins, was a well-respected aerospace engineer, but my mom loved business. Over the years, while my brothers and I were growing up, my mom had tried different multi-level marketing (MLM) opportunities and started several small businesses she could run out of our home to make an income. She was giving us an education on entrepreneurship, without even meaning to.

I think my mom is a natural teacher. She always sees the best in people and wants them to see beyond their fallen nature, so they can be who God made them to be. So when she told the local homeschoolers she was starting a community for high school students called Classical Conversations, there was a lot of interest, and we had ten students join us that fall. That year, she was writing the program as she went, but her work then became the framework now for our Challenge I program. It was important to her to charge a fee in the early days because it required families to buy in and show up, and thus created accountability. This was something she saw that was missing in the co-ops we were a part of in the past. That first year went well, so we decided to do it again for a second year. Some more families wanted to join, and my mom for the first time gave her curriculum to a friend who was willing to run her own Classical Conversations community. They were a single-income family like ours, so my mom made a deal that her friend would give her a percentage of any tuition she collected and keep the rest. This way, if her friend did not get any students, she would not have to pay. This was a lot different than the MLM we had been a part of in my growing up, where we would shell out a lot of money up front. My mom did not want to place that burden and financial risk on other families.

By the time I had exited high school, there were four or five communities going, and people were driving a few hours to attend. There was a small waiting list, but I didn’t give it much thought back then. I was going to be heading off to college to study industrial engineering. People often ask, “Did Robert Bortins always want to be part of Classical Conversations’ leadership?” I have to say, I enjoyed being homeschooled under the Classical Conversations model, but the organized business it is today did not exist back then for me to even consider joining. One of my friends who was studying business did a paper on my mom. At that time, there were about 2,000 students in a CC program. CC was not bringing in an income for my parents in those years, but the Lord was good and allowed them to pay their bills from the savings my dad had dutifully put away for the first nineteen years of their marriage. One year, my mom won a business award that gave her a $10,000 grant, and that become a lifesaver for ordering the inventory she needed.

After I graduated college, I got a job at UPS and worked there for nearly a year as a management trainee, before moving on to be a plant engineer for a small recycling company. Meanwhile, my mom had other amazing moms join her, such as Heather Shirley, Mary Alphs, and others, to help homeschooling families know about the benefits of education in community. Classical Conversations began to grow from one state to many states. In that same span of time, I was gaining valuable life and work experience. My mom and I started talking about me coming on to help, but she could not match my salary, and I was a young man with bills to pay.

Listen: Episode 33: A Practical Approach to Classical Thought with Heather Shirley | Refining Rhetoric

I did start helping with Homeschool Testing Services so that parents could get the end-of-grade testing they needed for their children. I enjoyed being homeschooled, and now Classical Conversations was becoming a structured business. While making widgets run a little more efficiently is fun, it isn’t life-changing work, and I felt I could add value at CC.

My two youngest brothers had grown up with my mom traveling 18-30 weeks a year, telling people about becoming a Director and starting a Classical Conversations community in their area. She wanted to spend time with her younger sons before they went off to college. Classical Conversations had reached about 38,000 seats and was finally providing a regular paycheck to my parents (most months). I quit my job to join CC full-time in 2012 and promptly enrolled in the Irmo, South Carolina Foundations and Essentials classes, so I could learn about those programs. That poor Director and tutor… I think they were very nervous, at first, but they quickly realized that I was just a normal 26-year-old in this class of 11- and 12-year-old boys and girls. I did not become a Memory Master, but I did write all of my Essentials papers! (Boy, I wish I had the new guide back then!)

Listen: Episode 1: From Sleeping in Closets to CEO | My Journey with Classical Conversations | Refining Rhetoric

I moved to the home office in West End, North Carolina in 2013 and spent the year learning from my mom the ins and outs of the day-to-day tasks that needed to be completed at Classical Conversations. We had about thirty people on staff at that point, and we had a small office and warehouse space. My purpose was to free her up from a lot of tasks to allow her to concentrate more at home with my brothers’ education. Since that time,I have been leading the day-to-day operations at Classical Conversations, as we have expanded from serving families in all forty states to serving families in all fifty states and over fifty countries. Our staff has expanded to nearly 150 full-time employees, most who homeschool with Classical Conversations. In fact, about 70% of our employees are homeschooling parents, some current and some empty nesters. We are expecting to add another ten positions this year to support the surge in homeschooling.

Today, I have three children. The eldest is in our local CC community. Neither my wife, April, nor I have been able to absorb through osmosis all that my mom has learned. My wife did take Latin in college, so I guess she has some advantages there, but I was a typical boy, growing up, and did my schoolwork so that I could go play. Now, I read the books we recommend and study them. Perhaps in twenty years, I’ll know what my mom knows—but probably not. We’re in community, taking each week as it comes, and trying to raise our children in the love of the Lord. We know it is invaluable to have a like-minded community around us, helping us educate our children to know God and to make Him known.

Not yet a Classical Conversations member and interested in our community-based approach to homeschooling? We’d love to hear from you! To learn more about us, click here.

This post was written by Robert Bortins and originally published in April 2021.

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Embracing Educational Freedom https://classicalconversations.com/blog/embracing-educational-freedom/ Fri, 12 Jul 2024 09:00:14 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/?p=12040 As Classical Conversations families, we understand that the purpose of education is to know God and to make Him known. This foundational belief guides our homeschooling journey and shapes our approach to learning. Recently, the Homeschool Freedom Action Center shared an insightful post about educational independence that introduces a Declaration of Educational Independence, a concept […]

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As Classical Conversations families, we understand that the purpose of education is to know God and to make Him known. This foundational belief guides our homeschooling journey and shapes our approach to learning. Recently, the Homeschool Freedom Action Center shared an insightful post about educational independence that introduces a Declaration of Educational Independence, a concept that aligns closely with our belief that education is the responsibility of the family, with support from fellow believers. This declaration serves as a reminder of why many of us chose the homeschooling path—to provide our children with an education that aligns with our faith and meets their specific needs.

As CC families, we’re already practicing a form of educational independence—we’ve chosen to take an active role in our children’s education—but the Declaration of Educational Independence encourages us to reflect on some fundamental questions that align with our beliefs:

  1. Who is ultimately responsible for a child’s education?
  2. How can we best protect the right to educational choice?
  3. What role should community play in education?

These questions challenge us to cultivate the art of wisdom, and we should give them the consideration they deserve. We believe God trusts parents with their children, and so should we. We also believe that the support of community enhances our ability to fulfill our parental duties. If we acknowledge the role of God, the parents, and community in a child’s education, we have established the foundation of educational freedom.

As we continue our homeschooling journey, let’s celebrate the freedom we have to provide our children with a rich and personalized education that aligns with our beliefs. Let’s also stay informed about educational policies that might affect this freedom. For those interested in reading more and entering into the broader discussion on educational freedom, we encourage you to read and sign the Declaration of Educational Independence.

Remember, every day we choose to homeschool is a day we declare our educational independence and reaffirm our commitment to knowing God and making Him known.

Let’s make the most of this freedom to nurture our children’s minds, hearts, and spirits, encouraging each other to develop the confidence to lead Christ’s natural classroom: the family.

 

If you’re interested in staying up-to-date on the latest issues affecting homeschool freedom, we encourage you to check out the Homeschool Freedom Action Center.

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For Dads: 20 Ways to Support Your Wife in Your Home School https://classicalconversations.com/blog/ways-to-support-your-wife-in-your-home-school/ Mon, 24 Jun 2024 09:00:13 +0000 https://classicalconversations.com/?p=11941 Hey there, homeschooling dads! As a homeschool mom, your wife wears many hats—teacher, counselor, nurse, and, on occasion, hazardous waste disposal engineer—all while keeping the household from falling apart, and that’s where you step in. We’ve assembled twenty ways for you, the ultimate husband, to support your wife in your home school, from sharing responsibilities […]

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Hey there, homeschooling dads! As a homeschool mom, your wife wears many hats—teacher, counselor, nurse, and, on occasion, hazardous waste disposal engineer—all while keeping the household from falling apart, and that’s where you step in. We’ve assembled twenty ways for you, the ultimate husband, to support your wife in your home school, from sharing responsibilities and attending community events to providing emotional support and celebrating important milestones. And because we know you’re a thoughtful guy, we’ll include some gift ideas that will make your wife feel appreciated and loved for all her hard work.

(And stick around for the conclusion. Don’t think we haven’t noticed how awesome you are, fathers!)

As the Saying Goes: Teamwork Makes the Dream Work

1. Pray for Her

The purpose of eduation is to know God and to make Him known, so it’s only natural that we should first turn to God for support. Pray for your wife’s wisdom, patience, and strength. Ask God to grant her discernment as lead learner and to bless her efforts. Pray for your children’s hearts and minds to be receptive to learning and growing in God’s love. Also, lift up your fellow homeschooling families in prayer, asking for God’s grace for each household on this shared journey.

2. Offer Her Encouragement

Homeschooling can be challenging, so your encouragement means, well, everything. Let your wife know that you appreciate her dedication and the effort she puts into homeschooling your children. Take time to listen to her concerns, celebrate her successes, and offer words of affirmation. Your consistent support will help her stay motivated and confident in her role as a homeschooling mom.

3. Know the Lay of the Land

Familiarize yourself with the curriculum guides. Read some of the assigned books as a family or a couple. By understanding the content your children are learning, you can engage in discussions, offer insights, and support your wife in her teaching efforts.

4. Share the Load

Offer to share homeschooling responsibilities by helping with lesson planning, teaching certain subjects, or supervising activities. This can provide your wife with much-needed breaks. And don’t be afraid to help out with unfamiliar subjects—part of classical education is learning how to learn, and that includes the homeschool parents!

5. Attend Community Days

If possible, attend CC community days with your family. Your presence not only provides moral support but also allows you to engage with other homeschooling families and build community connections. Participating in community events demonstrates your commitment to your children’s education and helps you better understand the Classical Conversations approach. It also provides opportunities for you to network with other homeschooling dads and share experiences.

And who knows? Maybe you’ll find a golfing buddy.

6. Assist with Planning

Help your wife with a family schedule, a plan for days away, and getting a vacation on the calendar. Oversee a chore chart, help with a system for keeping track of library books, and coordinate pet care. You can alleviate your wife’s workload by taking on some of the organizational tasks and ensuring that the homeschooling experience runs smoothly. Collaborate with her to create a balanced schedule that allows for learning, family time, and self-care.

7. Build in Margin

Homeschooling can be demanding, so make sure your wife has time for self-care and relaxation. Offer to take over childcare duties or household chores so she can have some time to recharge. Encourage her to pursue hobbies, meet with friends, or enjoy quiet time alone. Recognize the importance of self-care in maintaining her well-being and preventing burnout.

And don’t neglect your own self-care! A burned-out dad is a burned-out mom is a burned-out kiddo is a burned out mom is a . . . well, you get the picture. It’s a never-ending cycle of burnout til someone gets the R&R they need.

8. Provide Emotional Support

Homeschooling can come with its own set of challenges, so be there to provide emotional support. Listen to your wife’s concerns, offer advice when needed, and celebrate her successes as a homeschooling parent. Be her sounding board and her number one fan. Remind her of the reasons behind your decision to homeschool and the positive impact she is making on your children’s lives.

Also, you may want to read our blog for advice! That way, you’ll know just what to do when homeschooling is difficult.

9. Help with Advanced Subjects

Homeschooling can be academically demanding, especially for subjects like advanced math and science. Offer to step into the gap wherever necessary, drawing on your own expertise or resources as needed. If you have a background in a particular subject, consider taking the lead in teaching it.

10. Remember the Goal

One of the goals of education is to get your children standing on their own two feet. As they mature, students are encouraged to take more responsibility for their learning. Support your wife in encouraging your children’s independence by providing a conducive learning environment, resources, and guidance when necessary. Help create designated study times and coach good habits, ensure access to resources, and foster a love for learning.  Encourage your children to take ownership of their education while offering guidance when needed.

11. Participate in CC Practicum

Participate with your wife in Practicum. This is another way to demonstrate your commitment to your children’s education. Practicum provides valuable training, resources, and networking opportunities for homeschooling parents. By attending together, you can gain a shared understanding of CC’s methods and philosophy, and collaborate more effectively in your home school.

12. Prioritize Family Time

Amidst the challenges of homeschooling, it’s essential to prioritize quality family time. Plan regular family activities, outings, or game nights to strengthen your bond and create lasting memories. Use this time to reinforce learning concepts in a fun and engaging way. Encourage open communication and create a supportive family environment that values education and personal growth.

13. Help Out around the House

We almost didn’t include this one, since we know you’re already helpful—but this is a good reminder!

Take on a fair share of household responsibilities to lighten your wife’s load. This may include cooking, grocery shopping, laundry, or cleaning. By helping out with these tasks, you create more time and energy for your wife to focus on homeschooling. Consider creating a schedule or dividing tasks based on each other’s strengths and preferences.

14. Provide Learning Opportunities

Look for opportunities to enrich your children’s learning experience beyond the curriculum. This may include planning educational field trips, attending workshops or seminars, or exploring local museums and historical sites. By actively seeking out these opportunities, you demonstrate your commitment to your children’s education and provide valuable real-world learning experiences.

Plus, field trips are fun. Helping your wife out while getting to look at dinosaur bones? Very cool, indeed.

15. Celebrate Milestones

Recognize and celebrate your children’s achievements and milestones throughout the year. Whether it’s completing a challenging project, mastering a new skill, or reaching an academic goal, take time to acknowledge their hard work and progress. Plan special celebrations to mark these milestones and reinforce the value of education and perseverance.

And while we’re on the subject—have you ever considered attending the National Events Weekend in Southern Pines, North Carolina? That could be a fun getaway for you and the missus (or you could bring the whole family).

16. Stay Informed

Good leaders make informed decisions. Stay informed about homeschooling regulations, resources, and best practices. Attend homeschooling conferences, join online communities, or read relevant books and articles. By staying informed, you can provide valuable insights to your wife and make informed decisions about your homeschooling approach. Share relevant information and resources with your wife to help her stay current and inspired.

17. Encourage Professional Development

Support your wife’s professional development as a homeschooling parent and classical educator. Invest in resources, such as books or educational materials, that align with her interests and goals. Encourage her to attend programs, workshops, and training opportunities like the Classical Learning Cohort.

By prioritizing her growth as an educator, you demonstrate your belief in her abilities and your commitment to providing a quality education for your children.

18. Homeschool with Other Families

Homeschooling done wrong is isolating. Homeschooling done right leads to community. You can help build connections with other families by arranging activities and participating on community day. That way, you’ll provide socialization opportunities for your children—and for your wife!

Real talk: Community’s the best part of homeschooling. The connection afforded by community offers valuable advice and resources. Encourage your wife to seek out and maintain these relationships, as they are a source of encouragement, inspiration, and friendship.

19. Be an Advocate (Or, Fight the Good Fight)

Be an advocate for homeschooling and your wife’s efforts. Share your positive experiences with family, friends, and community members. Stand up for your educational choices and provide a supportive framework when faced with questions or criticism. By being a vocal advocate, you validate your wife’s hard work and reinforce the importance of your family’s homeschooling journey.

(Check out the Homeschool Freedom Action Center for the latest on threats to homeschooling freedoms as well as ways you can take a stand for your family. And we encourage you to read their article on the necessity of the traditional family to see what you’re fighting for when you fight for your home school.)

20. Encourage Self-Directed Learning

Foster a love for self-directed learning in your children. Encourage them to pursue their passions, explore new interests, and take initiative in their education. Provide resources, such as books, materials, or online courses, that support their individual learning goals. By promoting self-directed learning, you help your children develop important skills, such as creativity, critical thinking, and independence, while reducing the pressure on your wife to be the sole source of knowledge.

And, of course, this all ties back to that goal we talked about earlier: independence.

21. Express Gratitude

Regularly express gratitude for your wife’s dedication and hard work as a homeschooling mom. Acknowledge the sacrifices she makes and the impact she has on your children’s lives. Write heartfelt notes, plan thoughtful gestures, or simply verbalize your appreciation. By consistently expressing gratitude, you validate her efforts, boost her confidence, and strengthen your marriage.

Gift Ideas for Your Homeschooling Wife

Yeah, we’re a little biased, but the CC Bookstore has a lot of great gifts your wife’s sure to love. You’ll find some of the gift ideas below on our website.

1. CC Parent Resources

Purchase a parent resource from the CC bookstore that aligns with her teaching goals and interests, such as a new history book, Latin memory cards, or a fine arts resource.

2. CC Merch

Choose from the CC bookstore’s selection of insulated tumblers, handy totes, logo t-shirts, and more to show your support for her commitment to Classical Conversations.

3. Homeschooling Planners

Gift her a high-quality homeschooling planner or organizer designed specifically for homeschoolers, with sections for lesson planning, scheduling, tracking progress, and jotting down ideas.

4. Educational Games

Surprise her with a set of educational games or activities that make learning fun for the whole family, reinforcing math skills, language arts concepts, critical thinking, or historical knowledge.

5. Personalized Gifts

Create a custom-made piece of artwork, a personalized mug or tote bag with a homeschooling-themed design, or a piece of jewelry engraved with a meaningful quote that celebrates her role as a homeschooling mom. Treat her to a self-care package that includes items like scented candles, bath bombs, herbal teas, a cozy blanket, or a gift certificate for a spa day to help her relax and recharge.

6. Educational Resources

Choose educational books or resources that inspire and support her in the home school, such as books on classical education, teaching methods, homeschooling tips, or topics she’s passionate about teaching.

And a Special Thank You to You, World’s Best Homeschool Dad!

Well, there you have it, dads! Twenty ways to support your wife and make your homeschooling journey a little less crazy and a lot more awesome.

But before we wrap this up, let’s take a moment to appreciate you, the homeschool dad.

Your role in your family’s educational journey is invaluable, and your dedication does not go unnoticed.

To the dads who share the teaching load, attend community events, and provide emotional support— you are the reason that God has entrusted children to their parents.

To the fathers who prioritize family time, who share the burden, who seek out learning opportunities—you are the pillar of your family’s success.

And to the fathers who advocate for homeschooling and fight the good fight—you are making a real difference for your family and your community.

Your presence, involvement, and encouragement create the foundation for your children’s education and help your wife feel loved and supported in her role as a homeschooling mom.

So, to all the homeschooling dads out there, thank you for being the rock of your family. Keep up the fantastic work. With you at the helm, your wife and children can take on any challenge.

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